Haiti Blogs

Three blogs I’ve been following for Haiti updates:

The Anchoress, who has been posting reports from a friend in Petit Goave.

The Livesay Weblog, missionaries working in Haiti with several ministries — currently running a makeshift hospital at their location.

The Rollings — their ordinary work is making water filters for Clean Water for Haiti, based out of Pierre Payen.

Follow these.  When you can do almost nothing, at least you can know how to pray.

(Thank you to the several people who first pointed me to these.)

Not Amazing

William Peace rants here about misuse use of the word ‘amazing’.  Hearty dittos — go read and be inspired to curmudgeonliness.

As long as we’re on the topic, here’s my list of a few more things that are not amazing:

Parenting more than two children.  I have a mere four, and I get the ‘wow how do you do it??’ thing even from other Catholics.   (My answer: Not that well, frankly.)    Er, hey guys, I’m a married lady.  It’s a normal biological function.

Homeschooling.  Especially when you do it as haphazardly as I do.   Might not be your thing.  But again: It is entirely normal for parents to be able to teach their own children.  You know back all those centuries when married couples were still in the habit of procreating regularly?  Most of them also trained their very own children to follow in whatever trade they practiced.  Now I don’t know how to weave or spin or farm, but I can read and write pretty well.  So it isn’t particularly amazing that I can teach my children to do the same.

Teaching 5th Grade CCD.  Sordid truth: 5th graders are the best.  The rest of you guys are missing out.  Actually I’ve only had one person tell me this was amazing — and that one person was someone who possesses a number of  talents I only dream of.  So her comment wasn’t really about anything being ‘amazing’ so much as recognition that we all have different skills and preferences.

–> I don’t suppose there’s anything really wrong with using the A-word loosely, to merely mean “you are able to do something well that many other people don’t do very well”.   And certainly we shouldn’t lose sight of wonder of the every day world: flowers and children and birds and wideness of the sky are all amazing, when we are pulled out of our busy thinking and stop to consider them.

But back to my ditto, above.  It is woefully patronizing to gush over non-achievements.   If you’ve gotten into that habit, maybe not even realizing it, perhaps 2010 is the year for you to quit?

Well as you can imagine, every time I read something about the health care package about to emerge, my head gets that much closer to exploding. Said by a person who thinks our health care system does need some serious attention.   Just mostly not the kind that is coming out of Congress lately.

But I promise the relative quiet here is not me storming off sulkily.  I suppose my absence is healthcare-related though — we’ve a perky little GI virus hopping about the family.  Not a bad little guy, mild, short-lived, even agrees to appear in the early hours, before interested siblings are up and about and interfering with clean-up and quarantine efforts.  No complaints here.

Meanwhile, registration is open for the Catholic Writer’s Conference.  Highly recommended: It is free, and there are helpful people who will work with you regardless of your skill-level.   You can participate as much or as little as you want, and then purchase the transcript of the proceedings so that you can sit-in on missed classes at your leisure.    SuperHusband insists I go, even though I’ve done virtually no writing since I left off on my project from last year’s conference.  So I will.  A wife doesn’t argue about these things.

health-care: private versus public rationing

One of the arguments in favor of Obama’s health care program is something like this:

“Insurance companies effectively ration care, too — deciding what treatments the insurance will and will not cover.  Therefore, going to a government-run program will make no difference.  Those who complain about possible ‘rationing’ are throwing out a red herring.”

I disagree, for all the reasons Darwin Catholic lists here.

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[Review: I am not a person who is opposed to health care reform.  Indeed, I am a person who has written on this very blog about what kinds of health care reform I think are needed.  I have specifically given examples of why charitable assistance is needed for those who can’t afford adequate health care.  I just happen to think that going to a single-payer, government-run system might not be the best of our available options.]

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I would add that in my opinion, effective health care reform would free up our insurance system so that consumers have *more choice* and *more information* in order to choose an insurance progam that best meets their preferences.  For example, someone has proposed making insurance portable from job to job.

–> I think the idea is that insurance pools would not be formed by companies on behalf of their employees, but rather by individuals.  The role of the employer would be to provide the means to pay for the insurance.

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And of course for all this to work, yeah, you’d need pricing transparency.  You’ve got to know what your costs are, if you mean to control them.  You just have to.

When Even the Buildings Are In Denial

For a cornucopia of social-issues posts, check out the Blogging Against Disablism Day blogfest.   I’m running behind on my own contributions, but I wanted to talk for a minute here about dumb architecture.  Not merely bad in the sense of ‘ugly’, for I must grudgingly admit that ugliness is in the eye of the beholder.  But dumb as in ‘doesn’t work’.  Buildings that don’t meet the needs of the people who use them.  Or would use them, if only they were useful.

What stuns me is not that there was a time when buildings were not made to be wheelchair-accessible.  There was, after all, a time when wheelchairs, like indoor plumbing, just weren’t a significant part of most people’s lives.  Would have been nice to have such conveniences, but you didn’t.  Too bad.  The architecture of those eras reflect that, and retro-fits to modernize can be a bit clumsy.  (But worth it!  In both cases!)

But I am continually amazed that we don’t, as a society, seem to have caught on to the bit about how people — all people — ought to be able to get in and out of a building, and even move around in it.  I’m reminded of when I lived in a little ground-floor room in Paris and that had a window that let out onto a courtyard.  I hosted a party at the end of the school year, and fully expected that my guests, if they wanted to relax on the grass outside, would simply climb through the window.  I was stunned to discover that not everyone includes climbing through windows as part of their traveling repertoire.

But I was young then.  I was not an architect, not even a builder.  My assumption that anyone (among my guests, who were all walking-around kinds of people) could and would climb through windows was naive and a bit self-centered.  I assumed that if I could do something, everyone else could, too.   Somehow you would think that building professionals would have grown passed that point.

I am fortunate to live in a home that was designed to be moderately wheelchair accessible.  Not perfectly so, but better than average.  One of the previous owners did a few renovations to make it even better.  And the sordid truth?  It isn’t that big of a deal.  Any grown-up who has, say, studied architecture, ought to be able to whip out fairly accessible homes without too much difficulty.  There’s nothing really magical about it.

[Tuning a building to the precise needs of a particular individual or family?  Yes.  That takes some doing.  But being able to get far enough into the ballpark that the residents can easily take it the rest of the way?  Not nearly so hard. ]

And curiously, I think that defaulting to accessible architecture would bring down construction costs.  Here’s why: in order to make a home wheelchair-friendly, you can’t crowd it up with a bunch of built-ins.   And built-ins — cabinets, counters, shelves, drawers, even closets and extraneous doors — these are things that drive up cost.

So why aren’t modern American homes built to a default level of accessibility?  It isn’t a lack of space — our homes are larger now, on average, than they were fifty years ago, and have fewer residents.  It isn’t that everything goes to two stories, and it’s just so hard to make a two-story home accessible.  If that were the case, a) single-story homes *would* default to accessible design, and b) two-story homes would still have an accessible first floor.  (After all, even if I don’t have a ground-floor bedroom for my wheelchair-using visitor, it sure is nice for that person to at least be able to *get in front the door*.)

So I’ve got to assume a sort of perpetual adolescence on the part of our building industry.  Not surprising in a culture that worships youth and beauty and vigor — I’ve known people with gray hair and grandchildren to openly deny they were ‘old’.   So I suppose if you are going to great lengths to fight any appearance of mortality or even maturity, intentionally purchasing a wheelchair-accessible home isn’t going to help you keep up the facade.  And for a builder, suggesting someone might actually want such a building some day is going to about as popular as my letting slip to my gray-haired companion that no, she was not actually all that young anymore.

It’s a sad kind of denial.  As I rode through the countryside yesterday on the way home from a family reunion, I was myself a little surprised at how many homes had a ramp tacked on to the front.   More informative than riding through the city, because in the country you aren’t likely to move when your house doesn’t fit your needs anymore, you just try to adjust your house as best you can.

Not the end of the world — a slapped-together plywood monstrosity of a ramp isn’t particularly attractive, but as I said, this post isn’t about beauty.   Look inside our family farmhouse, and the bathroom — converted from a bedroom, I think — betrays that same problem of The Home That Had To Be Brought Into the Present.

But there reaches a point when you’ve got to lose patience with builders and architects who are still building for Some Other Era.  Be a grown-up, builders. What you build, people *will* buy — most of us haven’t got a choice but to purchase what is on the market.  It falls to you to lead.  Recognize that humans are frail, mortal.  That not everyone can climb through the window.   And it just isn’t a good building if people can’t use it.